Where to Now?

My sister lived in New Orleans before Hurricane Katrina and the levee breakage. She now lives with me in Salt Lake City. This whole tragedy began when I learned she was trapped in New Orleans with no word from her for nine days. We had lived through many hurricanes growing up and living there. So a hurricane was something we had actually grown accoustomed to. It was a part of life living in New Orleans. Massive flooding was another matter.

I became more concerned about my sister's welfare as I watched the poorly focused news coverage as well as the extent to which we were unprepared for such an event. Now that she is safe with me, we talk not only about her ordeal but her process of adaptation. After survival is handled, as well as food, shelter, and clothing, then the mental process of accepting the fact that friends and family are dispersed throughout the country, everything called home is probably gone forever, and what do the survivors do with their lives now. It's vital to realize that for many, if not most, the mental adjustment will be years; if not the rest of their lives.

I attempt to have active conversations with my sister to have her go deep about all these changes. I also discuss alternatives for her to consider. Most of all, I attempt to help her create new relationships and opportunities as she processes her future and her life. I plan to help put together support groups to begin exploring all of these questions and issues. I encourge all of us to do the same where the opportunity exists. This contribution can be more valuable than money; to help someone become self-sufficient.

I invite comments and suggestions.